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This is more of a photo scrapbook and a place to write (and vent) my thoughts and feelings and brag about my grandkids.. I am a 60 something wife, mom & grandma. I've been married to my best friend Walt since 1977. The most important thing in my life is family. We have been blessed with some great kids, our daughter Kayci, son Cody, our awesome grandson Jesse, our precious granddaughters Cassandra and Chelsea and our newest grandson John. We are currently raising our grandson Jesse and dealing with things such as Autism & ADHD. We have lived in northern Arizona for most of the last 35 years and love it here. We've had our ups & downs ~ but life is good... I'll add a little here - my sweetheart and best friend Walt passed away unexpectedly January 8, 2014. He will be missed by many.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Autism

10 Things I've learned about dealing with autism..

1. He has autism, he is not autistic. It does not define who he is.
2. Encourage curiosity. Endless questions lead to endless answers.
3. I need to stay calm, especially during meltdowns. (his, not mine)
4. Pick your battles wisely. Does it really matter if his cars are lined up down the table? It comforts him to do that.
5. Have patience, even with nonstop prattling.
6. Less TV time leads to less mimicing.
7. He has NO limitations. Let him develop his own interests.
8. Listen, you'll be surprised what you learn from him.
9. Don't apologize for his behavior - it's who he is.

10.Love him unconditionally.


1 comment:

Michelle Knight said...

Jesse's so lucky to have you!

Some of My Favorite Quotes..

  • The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. ~ Helen Keller
  • "The decisions you make now determine your destiny." ~ Thomas S. Monson
  • Before you speak, it is necessary for you to listen, for God speaks in the silence of the heart. ~ Mother Theresa
  • Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. ~ Mother Theresa
  • All that we love deeply becomes a part of us ~ Helen Keller